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When we were at Chipotle yesterday, D noticed something that wasn't in our line of sight and said, "mommy, that man doesn't care. That man doesn't care that he's making his world dirty. He's littering."

The trash can was but ten feet away.

Littering is D's biggest pet peeve. She has been throwing things in the trash since she could walk - supported and independently. We never had to teach her this. She just did it. If she couldn't find trash, she put it in my bag till we got home. She has stood on a train station platform in Mumbai yelling at people to not put trash on the tracks (and not to cross to get to the other platform across the tracks).

It must be something that runs in the blood. Because it's my biggest pet peeve. It's the easiest way to care for the planet - and from young I never could let go of even banana peels outside a trash can. I would carry the trash home.

I remember N & my first over night train ride in 2007 together. He has a very romanticised notion of train travel in India. People who know me, know how much I love trains. What I never loved is all the trash you witness strewn out the train for miles and miles - people just throw stuff out the window. In all fairness, they didn't have proper trash collection back in the day and most matter thrown out the window was organic matter. Today however, a lot of it is plastic and inorganic things. Anyway, by 2007, there were trash cans in the compartments. We used one of the plastic bags we had as a collection and kept it till it filled. The other family we shared the births with  just stared at us as if we were from Mars while they lived their normal lives of throwing stuff out the window. And people complain that the trash is full and not picked up. No one pauses to think that maybe they brought too much trash with them.

But it also reminds me of my story of when I had no choice but to litter. It was 9 years ago, when sis and I moved with our parents to India to help them resettle and for me to get ready for my wedding. I still remember when it happened and so here it is for your amusement.
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Last week, D's baseball coach announced Monday would be the last class. He would extend the session by another 15-20 minutes to compensate for a snow day cancellation. He was planning to do a little award presentation and share a snack and drink with the kids. He also asked to let him know about any allergies. So, I emailed him, not replied all about D's allergies and I would bring something just in case. He didn't have to worry.

Anyway, Monday rolls around. During the awards presentation he gave each player a certificate and a nickname for each player! He shared a little characteristic trait and nickname had something to do with the game and personality. D got "Drive" for being able to get the ball out (well, as best as a 4 year old can) and always having the drive to do her best and keep trying and not give up! yay! The coach is really awesome and is really all into getting every kid out into baseball! D was so excited that he said he will see them out on the baseball field some day!! She was excited that she will be out on the field some day! :) Who knows.

As he announced the snack he was giving out, he also pointed out that it was nut free, peanut free, tree nut free and the parents actually snickered and laughed and rolled their eyes. Obviously they don't have kids with a nut allergy. I don't know. Felt a little sad. I have never seen a kid go into a severe reaction, never EVER want to. But no matter, his/her safety takes a priority over feeding kids some junk. ah well. It was a nice time otherwise to see each kid hit a ball and run like crazy around all four bases! It's so adorable to watch!

D without fail questions every time someone jay walks. Why do they walk when the light is red? She is under the impression now that it's a grown up thing to do. As Viola jokes, and we have a laugh, she must have been German in her previous life! :p

D without fail questions why people don't look at where they are walking - looking at people walking while reading on their smartphones.

D stares the people who smoke outside our building (our building is smoke-free building and so there are always smokers congregating right outside by the trash can, smoking) with the most puzzled look on her face. I have never said anything. But every now and then she will ask me why they are smoking. Don't they know smoking is bad for them? I am afraid one of these days she will get the courage and tell them that. She has told strangers to not let their children ride bikes without helmets!

This a trait my sis very much had/has! Ah I miss that girl! WIsh she was closer!

In case you missed, am doing a question meme for April, if you would like to take part, go here. :)
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River of Smoke by Amitav Ghosh (part of the Ibis Trilogy)

The first book of the trilogy, Sea of Poppies, I had picked up at the library randomly on the "new books" shelf some time ago. Really liked the books - both of them! It's a slow paced book, kind of like a sea journey I imagine, but filled with a lot of stories. It was so very interesting to learn and read about times of yesteryears in the Asian region. And even back then the huge impact China had on world economy. Duh! I know, nothing surprising, but it's a part of history I never got to learn in school. Cultural bias of international schools? Where all you learn is of western hemisphere. We did touch a little on Indian independence and the only time we ever jumped to South East Asia was the Korean War & Vietnam wars and China was always the bad guy.

Obviously this is fiction. But is based on correspondence left behind by the protagonist in the story, Neel. I can't wait for the third part to come out!

I picked another random book from the library: The Round House by Louise Erdrich. I didn't even notice the big "New York Times bestseller" sign on the front cover.

Another random book I picked at the library while my daughter was singing loudly in the library was Susan Cain's Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking Just amazing! I don't think a book has touched me as much as it did this! I bought her book! There's so much to write about here! I read this 3-4 months ago and have been wanting to write down many of my thoughts over it. Just never got down to it. Maybe one day. I was crying over every page!! A must read for everyone, an extrovert or an introvert! 
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  • There are some new LJ-friends joining! Welcome! I also saw this meme floating around. Figured it would be good timing to do it! I won't be able to do it in continuous succession. Life has suddenly gotten busy (in a good way)!


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  • I finished sewing a pair of pajamas!! So, making a tote bag & pajamas for daughter as ordered to do so! They will not be matching-matching!!

  • Still working on the quilt for D. Actually haven't had a chance to do so the last two weeks!

  • Met a homophobe this morning in sewing class, my first! wow... it was shocking! And she went on to preach about finding Jesus. whoa... She was a nice old lady, made it harder to say anything. But I guess that's free speech? I am likely never going to see her again!

  • Will be attending my first funeral, ever in all my life! Being abroad has helped me deal with death very differently. There never is closure and so for me the person lives on the way I saw him/her last. This is going to be sad. It's of someone I have never met, a newborn.

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It's like we live in a twilight zone. Neither here nor there. Geographically we are in a great location! We are close to everything! We can get to the nation's capital and all its attractions within half hour (on good metro days)! We can get out to nature in less than that too...with so much greenery in the county. And yet it's so hard to meet other moms. We go to the park on weekdays, there are a lot of kids, most are accompanied with nannies. We go to DC or to Fairfax there are so many moms and their kids out and about. By chance there is a mom here at the park with the kid, it's so hard to break the ice sometimes. It's a very transitionary county, at least where we stay. 

One is either a foreigner like us, and probably be here for another year or two. Or, they move to the suburbs within an year of having a kid, to get into a good school zone and a house. Or they are nervous about speaking in English, because it's not their first language. 

D has helped in breaking the ice in many occasions. I have met moms from China, Turkey, Ukraine, Japan, Russia, Serbia, and a few other parts of the world. Funny, how we never run into Americans. Although they are the ones who form a group and have their own thing. And it's amazing how mothers in a group form such a click that they often are in their own world and won't even smile at you! 

DC moms feel Arlington is a world away. The suburban moms think anything past us and the capital is too congested and they can never find parking. It's very amusing. At some point we will move to the suburbs as this apartment will get small for us. But I wil truly miss being here. But then again, why do we need to move? Do we really need to get into the mode of buying a place and it be a house? Do we really need to trade the no-commute for N, walking distance to school, public pools, library, car used rarely for just grocery runs or meeting friends in the suburbs, metro access for a house that will be so far away from things interest us? Am sure as D grows, our interests will change. Having space at home for her to explore will also be helpful! The longer we wait the harder that transition will get. And yet, I love it here.

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