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A few of N's friends have been moving to around Maryland or Virginia recently. And we have been busy catching up with them. Majority of them are people he knows from the West Coast and are Mumbaikers. We have been introducing them to the places around the city of DC. And one of the perks is the public transport. It's quite a simple line here; if you compare to New York or London. And yet they all prefer driving all the way down to our place and then catching the train together to wherever we are going. At first I laughed. But then I guess if one got so used to a certain way of getting around; having to try something new could be quite daunting.

My first memory of catching the bus, a public bus, was in Hyderabad. I don't exactly remember where we were all going to and what purpose we were allowed to take public transport when there's a shuttle that takes us to the city for free. But I just have a memory of being 8 years old and going along with a group of friends of different ages in a crammed bus down old Bombay Highway.

Once we got older and were in Rome, my dad shared that he would not be chasing after us in the car to take us from one extracurricular activity to another and neither would mom. So, we took the bus home; on occasion alone. Of course, we got our training. In the beginning mom would come with us. Then she would test us by watching and not guiding to see if we learnt what they were trying to teach. Then they would pretend that they were letting us go on our own and mom would follow us behind. We didn't even know until mom recently told us! And then we got our independence to move around.

Majority equate having a car to independence. I have always equated public transport to independence. I don't have to worry about driving amidst idiots, nor sitting in traffic, nor the car breaking down, nor parking and its fees, nor the many other costs that come along with it; someone else did the worrying. I paid the taxes to let someone else worry about it. I guess I also lived in places where public transport was reliable - Rome, Singapore and Honolulu.

I didn't get my driver's license until the age of 26! I remember since I turned 20 years old, dad would persist that I get a license. At the time I was in Hawai'i and in college and owning a car was not cheap and TheBus (which is what the system is called) was great! Dad even bribed me with purchase of a car if I learnt and I refused!!! My dad thought us (my sis did as well) weird! Afterall, it was his doing!

So, now as we house hunt one of the key aspects I search for is access to public transport. It's a challenge but we like challenges, no?!

Date: 2008-06-30 05:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fugney.livejournal.com
>>I have always equated public transport to independence<<

If public transport is reliable, that is very true. I hate driving myself. I just wish Bangalore had better public transport. Driving *does* give you more freedom here.

Date: 2008-07-13 08:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] echomyst.livejournal.com
Me too -- I love public transit because I've always lived in cities with reliable and fairly efficient public transit systems (Hong Kong & Toronto)... but now that I'm in a small city/town, it's either biking (within the town) or driving (outside of town) for me.

Date: 2008-06-30 09:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fussycat.livejournal.com
Wish I had your mum. I had to take public transport to school from the age of 7 on my own and I dreaded it.
I still don't have a driver's licence, I got a provisional one 3 years ago which lets me take driving classes but there's no need for it really as we're not planning to get a car.

Date: 2008-06-30 08:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] inspirethoughts.livejournal.com
Nice post. But all the experiences with a public transport is not so good always, like you travel in a train that is jam-packed at 7:30am to work, feel like u r in an oven even during -ve temps in winter.

Appreciate your attitude on public transport

Date: 2008-07-12 05:36 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Hello, I live in a village near Mangalore & have cycled in some places you mentioned some twenty years back. Appreciate your healthy attitude very much toward public transport. regards Govind Bhat

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