Jul. 24th, 2011

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Yesterday evening I took D out to the lawn next to the pool area for her to hang out. She sits nicely on grass and pulls them all out. Thankfully she doesn't put any of it in her mouth. Only leaves. For some reason she differentiates discriminates between them! It was still a hot evening. The temperature was somewhere still at 90F (33C) at 7:30PM! I saw a bunch of our residents, all young ones probably in their 20s, hanging out in the pool. They were there all day. Baking and soaking. I was feeling a little aghast. But I thought back to when I was a kid...

Summers were/are hot in Hyderabad. It's not uncommon for temperatures to go beyond 40C. There were no AC units back then. Although, our houses where we lived came with one in the living room. It was a huge box that we had to water to get it to work continuously. We were privileged to have this because we lived on campus of an international institute. But we hardly used it. We were hardly home.

Summer vacations were the best! The campus where I grew up had around 20-30 families. All around the same age group. So, almost every home had children of different ages. Because campus was a secured area, our parents hardly ever worried about our safety. We would run all about the playground all over the institute grounds (1,390ha). It's an agricultural institute so there was/is a huge diversity of crops, trees, etc. Oh what fun it was! 

Even before moms and dads got up, we would have been up by 6am, brushed our teeths, got dressed and would run out the door to meet with other kids and take a long walk around the grounds. We would come back only around 8:30-9am, because we would be hungry. Have some thing to eat and then we would be out again. Most of the time, we would be at the swimming pool. If not the swimming pool, we would by the playground or just play whatever games. We would be out for another few hours. Around 11ish we would head home. Take baths. Have lunch. And rest at home in the afternoon. Usually my paternal grandmother would be staying with us. So she would tell us stories. If maternal grandpa and grandma were there, grandpa would give us some English or math lessons. Tata (grandpa in Telugu) also would teach us Telugu. Around 4 or 5pm, we would all go out again.

This time to the sandbox - yes, the one where you would practice long/short jumps. We didn't know that it was for that. For us, it was a patch of beach that transformed into castles with moats and rivers and mountains. A completely different world! Or we would play a game of dodgeball on the parking lot - a cemented road. We would use our shoes/sandals/slippers to form the boundaries. Of course, when any mom came out, we would all run to wear our shoes/sandals/slippers. 

Some days we would go pick fruits off of trees. Mostly mango trees, which is not allowed by the institute. So, it was always done under strict conditions. One would keep a lookout for the security, and the others would throw their slippers at the targeted fruit. Most of the time the slipper would get stuck on the branch and so someone had to climb the tree to collect it. And often picked and dropped the mangos from the branch. If the security came by, we would be found to be picking mangos that fell to the ground - completely acceptable! :D 

As the evening came, dads would come home from work. The "namaste uncles" would begin. And slowly mothers would venture out and the "namaste aunties" would commence. Uncles and aunties would go on their long evening walks, while we continued play. As the sun would set and they would return it would be time for us to head home too. But most of us didn't.

Around 7:00pm, all you would hear around campus are the moms in all different Indian languages, saying the same thing, "come home now!" and slowly leading to, "come home now or else!"

Once we were home, all washed up, it was time for dinner. Maybe half an hour of TV and time for bed.

That was our typical summer day. Once in a while my cousins would be over. But we would do the same thing with them. And on weekends, the exciting thing to do was go on a car ride!! and on the occasional Saturday or Sunday, we watched a movie! But otherwise it would be a lot of storytelling, lot of board games, lot of laughs. Good times!

I don't think D will have such an active lifestyle but hope she has one filled with warm and happy memories!
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We were/are so happy with the location where we live. We can get around pretty much anywhere without the need of a car. Our car is used occasionally on weekends! Usually for grocery shopping or to visit a friend who lives an hour away. We could metro to their place too, but it's one place where it's cheaper to drive. And hey the car needs the run!

A lot of folks said that I should get my full license since we are having a baby. I didn't get why. I had no intention of being a mom who overscheduled her child at such a young age. And I have met moms who are that way already! It's crazy.

So many of these places that offer classes are nowhere near a bus line nor a metro line! It's crazy. One must have a car to get to these places. It's ridiculous. Some are close enough that one could take a bus and then it's aroun 10-20 minute walk. But the buses to these places also run once an hour on weekdays! 

Since DMV is just so much fun to go to..not... am planning to get my full license once we get our visas renewed (otherwise we would have to do everything again - well, renewals). And because of my last name fiasco, I know we would need to make several trips!

Which also means we really need to make that India trip. Which is also getting postponed because to get the visa done, we need our renewal papers.

And apparently the Consulate in Mumbai is moving and so getting appointments there are getting harder and everyone is recommending us to go to Delhi instead of Chennai - which is not the friendliest of embassies in the world (Chennai US Embassy is the busiest in the world and gets a lot more rejections). And logistically, we would much rather go to Chennai as at least there's family there we can visit than to go to New Delhi. It would be kind of like going from DC to Chicago instead of going to NYC.

Anyhow, for which the appropriate office needs to process and approve the renewal papers. But said office had a question and sent the papers to the wrong attorney's office. Luckily that attorney's office was kind enough to forward it to the right attorney's office. If they hadn't, we would have never known and we would be busy packing our bags and going home or we would overstay our visa. Well, actually if the renewal never happes we would be illegals. And that's not what we want!

So, anyhow, once the question was answered, we are back in line again. Not, back in the line where we were when we submitted the original documents, but back to square one. yeah life's not fair. We figured this is special treatment we get for being legal in this wonderful country.

So the LONG delay. So, our trip home is postponed further. Which also means no license yet.

uggghhh... also getting a full license doesn't mean I will be driving everywhere. Our car is a stick shift and there are a lot of hills in Arlington and I always freak out that I won't release the clutch and engage the accelerator quick enough. And people tailgate so much!! arrghhh... And cars in this country are so darned big. Hubby's is a 1994 sedan. And so I can't really adjust the seat/wheel, etc. to my height! sigh. It's a pain to my shin.

So really....it forces me to not super schedule my l little one into too many things. ;)

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