Adelaide has asked me about skin colour. She's also asked me about why her hair is different to D's, which is loooong and pin straight. And she's asked me why S talks in Afrikaans with her family. For me, growing up, it was the opposite - I was the one touched and poked all the time because I was different. I think kids are always going to notice the differences, even in an accepting world, it's just how the questions are dealt with that makes the real difference. :)